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给儿子的话

亲爱的小轩:

   转眼间你就长大了,要独自远行到大洋彼岸求学,爸爸妈妈真心为你感到骄傲、自豪!

   本想与你当面聊聊,但你临近毕业,学业生活也非常紧张,正好学校为我们提供了这样一个极好的机会,就用这封信和你谈谈心吧。

   你是我们唯一的孩子,从出生时不睁眼的“小迷糊”,到现在一米八的帅小伙,感谢你的到来让我们体会到生命的完整,在我们眼里,你的每一步都是父母人生中最美好的记忆。

   看着你阳光灿烂的毕业照,看你在网上忙碌地递交申请,焦急地等待回复,我们知道儿子的离开是不可避免的,你是真的准备出门远行了,纵有万般不舍,但孩子,你应该有自己的人生道路,作为父母,我们理解并坚定地支持。

   孩子,在你即将远行之际,爸爸妈妈有很多很多话想对你说——希望你是个有求知欲的人,外面的世界那么大,变化那么快,值得你去不断探索;希望你是个有责任感的人,意识到你拥有的一切,既非从天而降,也非一劳永逸,需要你不懈追求与奋力呵护;希望你拥有梦想,时时给自己以激励,帮助你克服现实生活中的各种困难,始终前行;希望你学会选择,自己去面对,自己去承担,不要轻易放弃任何一个机遇,也不要随便做出一个承诺;希望你珍惜自己,爱护生命,要为自己拥有生命而自豪,学会感受生命发展的过程,在成长中感受不同生命阶段的美妙;希望你怀有一颗感恩的心,真诚感谢每一位陪伴、帮助你的人,记住枫叶教育集团陈林生校监、袁清晨校长、彭蕾主任、雷家喜领事及各位老师、领事给予的关心、理解、帮助与培养,是他们的辛勤工作与枫叶教育理念的完美结合,使你的人生更丰富、更多彩……这些话与其说是爸爸妈妈对你的希望,不如说是我们相互勉励,帮助彼此成为那样的人。

   亲爱的儿子,过去已然逝去,未来正在眼前,大胆前行吧!

   记住,要活得精彩,活得真诚,跟自己比。

   愿你的留学生活——健康、快乐、充实!
永远爱你的爸爸妈妈
二〇一五年五月

To give to our son

Dear Xuan,

   It seems that a moment passes by and you have already grown up. It’s time for you to go abroad and learn more. We are proud of you!

We’ve wished to talk to you face to face, but since that the end of the year is coming and you are so busy, we decide to communicate with you through this letter.

  You are the only child in our family. From that innocent baby to now a 1.8-meter tall handsome boy, thanks for informing us the entirety of life. Every step you taken is the most wonderful memory for us.

When looking at your graduation picture, when witnessing that you apply for universities and wait for the response, we realize that one day you will leave home. Despite the strong emotion that we are not willing to let you leave, we still understand and be your back. You need to live your own life out.

   We got a lot of things to tell you when you are going to leave. We wish that you are always eager for the knowledge. The world is large and it changes, therefore it is worthy to explore. We wish that you are always responsible. What you have now is not given by the heaven, and will not permanently be yours. You are supposed to keep working. We wished that you always remember what your dream is. When you are encountered obstacles, it inspires you to overcome them. We wish that you are continuously learning to make choices. To face the reality and to take the responsibility. Don’t let any opportunities go and don’t make a promise casually. We wish that you are able to realize how valuable you are. To be proud of your life, and to feel the meaning of different stages of life. We wish that you are always grateful. Thank those who accompany and help you sincerely. For instance, Chen linsheng, Yuan qingchen, Peng lei, Paul Lei and other teachers are those who you should always remember. It’s their effort that consummate the Maple Leaf system and enrich your life... These words are not only given to you, but also encourage us to be that kind of people.

   Our dear son, let the past go and focus on your future. Step forward without hesitation.

   Mark our words: To live wonderfully, to be what you want to be and to surmount yourself.

   Hope your study experience to be healthy, delightful and meaningful.
                                                    
                                                       Yours Mother and Father
May 2015